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Top 5 Rules Of Texting Women To Make Her Want You (A MUST READ)

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Let me guess, you landed on this page because most likely you have been trying to get a girl’s attention and it’s barely yielded any results.

You either get ignored. She leaves you on read you can tell that she’s read your message but she hasn’t said anything and you are probably wondering, what’s going on? Did I do something wrong?

Or maybe you’ve got a girl you want to start having a conversation with and you want to make sure you get it right at the get-go.

Today, I’m going to be sharing the top rules for texting women and how you can make her want you. Good idea right? I think it’s worth talking about too.

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Now let me give you some rules for texting women, and I believe if you practice some of these rules, it will make her want your time and affection.

Too many times when men reach out to women, they end up beating about the bush without actually telling them the real reason why they’re reaching out.

It’s different if you’re just you know trying to exchange pleasantries and try to find out how she’s doing.

But the minute you want to engage her beyond that, just move on to the reason why you’re texting really fast.

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And most likely, she’ll be less irritated because she knows from the onset, why exactly you are reaching out.

Now don’t forget this is at a level in which you are still not necessarily a friend, maybe an acquaintance you just met her and you’re trying to get her attention.

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5. Prioritize Your Life

Don’t appear as too needy. I’m sure you have 1,000,001 things to do other than jumping into a woman’s DMS to have a chat with her.

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Alternatively, I do also think that you should never let her feel as if she is the only thing you think about all the time.

She also wants to know that you’re also busy going about your life and making shit happen.

But if you’re constantly in her inbox, or in her DMs or on her phone, or in her messaging app, trying to get her attention, she’s gonna feel as if you have nothing better to do with your time.

So, I think prioritizing your life, prioritizing the things that truly matter is a good thing. Because these other things keep you engaged.

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You’re not going to be filling all your hours, days, and minutes with trying to get this girl’s attention.

You sent her a “Hi” in 2016 and you’re still sending her a “Hi” in 2022. I mean, really!!

4. Always Keep Her Guessing

Yep!! How do you do that? I say vary your response time.

You want to create the impression of having other things to do and yet make time to accommodate the person that she is.

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So, once you’ve been able to strike that acquaintance, you guys have started getting to know each other, she messages you and you message her, I believe at that point you need to vary your response time. Yep.

Today, you will respond right after she messages you. Tomorrow, you’ll pull yourself back. You just have to give it some time, don’t always be in a hurry to respond to her messages.

If you’re always there. She could take that for granted. You know how people are, it’s a human thing.

If you are too available soon, people get fed up with you really, really quickly, especially if the relationship isn’t that deep, or it’s still in a formative stage.

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And so by varying your response time, you know, you are giving her the impression that “hey,I’ve been so busy, but I still got you”.

With that, you actually create the impression that you have other things to do, but still make time to respond to her. She will start appreciating you.

But please, don’t do this too often because if she also gets the sense that maybe this guy’s too busy to respond to my messages all the time, she might think that someone else is in the room or life.

That might end up working against you.

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3. Send Her Thoughtful Messages

So, it’s not just about sending a girl a message and saying, Hi, how are you doing? I was just checking up on you.

I think that conversation opener or that method of engagement is overstretched. You need to think of ways to engage her, you know, a bit more.

Let your interactions with her be a little deeper than the whole surface level that most guys go because usually women too have things they are going through or things going on in their life, so as guy sending thoughtful messages always counts.

You know, women constantly have issues with that time of the month, if you know she’s going through a rough patch.,

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For instance, you can always just send her a little message and say, Hey, I know it’s not like the best time of the month for you but I’m hoping that your day is going well.

Have you taken any medication to ease your pain? So let your messages be thoughtful.

2. Do Not Send Indecent Stuff Or Bombard Her With Inappropriate Things

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Lots of men make this mistake very early on in the development of their friendship and or relationship.

I know some people like to just be themselves. Maybe you like living on the edge, you have raunchy jokes and messages that you send your friends.

But remember that you do not at this point, know this woman too well. And so if you just send her random stuff that you send to your male friends, you might be completely off.

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Not every woman likes the whole profanity thing. So you want to keep it clean, keep it decent, keep it intellectual, if you can, depending on what her interests are, things she wants to talk about, things she likes to talk about, etc.

When it comes to inappropriate jokes, you may want to shelve that completely. Get to know her a little bit and find out what kind of things actually stimulate her, what kind of conversations she finds engaging or interesting.

Before you go in there and start cracking jokes that do not mean anything or carry any weight for her. Keep the profanity on a load, she’s not your best friend or your boy that you go out with to drink at the club or at the bar.

She is a woman you’re trying to get to know and until you know her through and through and know that she’ll be okay with any kind of, or any level of profanity, just stay completely steer clear away from doing that.

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It will save you a lot of trouble.

1. Be Sensitive About The Kind Of Responses You’re Getting

I don’t know if guys have a little notebook that you’re writing all these questions in but it almost sounds like a textbook.

Keep those textbooks of questions and comments far away from this lady. Don’t be boring.

I think the art of engagement or conversation runs beyond just sending a hi or hello I’m checking on you. If you’re really engaging with someone, you can usually tell by their responses.

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Once you start getting monosyllabic answers, you should know that you are losing very, very fast.

If the woman is not distracted, then it might mean that you’re just boring or she does not want to engage at that point in time.

Be really sensitive, intuitive to the kind of responses that you’re getting. You may want to cut the conversation for the day and continue tomorrow.

There might be something going on in her life as well that makes her want to just not talk and you’re there trying to push a conversation out of her give her space give her time.

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Try again tomorrow. We’re still living life and there are so many more opportunities out there for you to score.

I hope you find these tips helpful. If there’s any tip that you know about, drop it in the comments below.

Thanks for reading!!

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Common Red Flags In Relationships You Shouldn’t Ignore (WATCH VIDEO)

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In relationships, there are non-negotiable red flags people often ignore.

In most cases, people’s minds and emotions get clouded with the need to be in love that they often decide to manage to cope with some Red-Flags behaviour of their partners.

Today on Family Life With Adeola, we shall be talking about relationship red-flags no one should ignore in relationships.

You will learn a lot from this. Drag a seat and Enjoy!!

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5 Important Values To Long Lasting Relationship (WATCH VIDEO)

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It takes commitment to build a successful relationship.

There are countless life scenarios that might arise and put your partnership’s strength and unity to the test.

Having basic principles that are congruent will give you the strength and confidence you need to get past those stumbling blocks together.

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Therefore, what are relationships value? They are the guiding ideas that guide your actions; they are your personal perspectives about yourself, others, and the world.

The foundations of how you spend your life are your core principles. On this edition of Family Life With Adeola, we will be taking you through the core values of every relationships.

This values are what make your relationship stronger in the phase of any challenges that may come your way.

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Mr. Jollof: Once A Blind Man, Now A Hungry Man?

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Involvement of some celebrities in politics can easily be adjudged to be patriotism or passionate show of concern for troubles the masses are facing with bad leadership.

Some are genuine in their words and actions while some are two-faced nonentities always doing everything to make themselves politically relevant just to eat in the political cake when it’s time. Mr. Jollof could be one big part of the latter.

During the COVID-19 era Mr. Jollof was one of the most vocal celebrities talking about how Nigerian politicians were handling the menace caused by the virus.

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It was really a critical time for Nigerians. Many private companies stood up to save the nation with huge donations only for government officials to hoard some Covid-19 relief materials.

This was the same period Bullion Van loaded with cash entered Bourdillon which ofcourse caused controversies. Mr. Jollof weighed in on the controversy and shred apart the man in bourdillon in a well-planned social media video

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The same politician you blasted years ago is now all of a sudden your anointed presidential candidate. The APC leader might not be aware of the viral video Mr. Jollof did to attack him that year but it’s certain his son Seyi Tinubu who introduced Jollof to his father as a fan knew.

Why does he have to deceive his father about Mr. Jollof?

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Apparently, they might be trying to work on getting the active backings of as much celebrities as possible against campaign period, so the seemingly hungry ones would be easy to catch first.

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Just because internet never forgets, Mr. Jollof was challenged by fans with the old video of him blasting Tinubu, his response was “I was blind that time”.

Obviously, the blind man of 2years ago is now hungry and needs to eat the political cake that is about to be served.

This is to call on Nigerians to vote their conscience and beware of chameleon celebrities who might be trying to influence their voting decision in the next general elections.

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Mr. Jollof is just one out of many that will still show face beware!!

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The Three Major Requirements Of A Good Relationship

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Many people, after they’ve been in a couple for some time, will privately admit that they are – in many ways – frustrated and disappointed by the person they’ve chosen to share their lives with.

If pressed for details, they will have no difficulty coming up with a list: their partner, they might complain: Is too loyal to their irritating, family doesn’t share their views on the layout of the living room, Never wants to go on camping holidays, Plays tennis every Wednesday evening no matter what, Doesn’t like Moroccan food, Doesn’t share their enthusiasm for 19th century Russian novels, Has a habit of adding ‘actually’ to every second sentence, when it’s actually redundant.

As the list gets longer, they sigh; they still love their partner and long to be happy together, it’s just that it seems impossibly complicated to make this relationship work. What’s driving the frustration isn’t that they’ve sadly fallen for an idiot as a mate; it’s rather that we have all inherited needlessly complicated ideas of what a relationship is supposed to be for.

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We are told that love is meant to involve the almost total merger of two lives: we expect that a loving couple must live in the same house, eat the same meals together every night, share the same bed, go to sleep and get up at the same time; only ever have sex with (or even sexual thoughts about) each other, regularly see each others’ families, have all their friends in common – and pretty much think the same thoughts on every topic at every moment.

It’s a beautiful vision, but a hellish one too, for it places an impossibly punitive burden of expectation on another human. We feel the partner must be right for us in every way, and if they’re not, has to be prodded and cajoled into reform. But there’s another perspective: relationships don’t have to be so complicated and ambitious if we keep in view what in the end actually makes them fulfilling.

If we boil matters down, there might really just be three essential things we want from one another:

Kindness: a partner who is gentle with our imperfections and can good-humouredly tolerate us as we are.

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Shared vulnerability: someone with whom we can be open about our anxieties, worries and the problems that throw us off balance: someone we don’t have to put on a good front for; someone around whom we can be weak, vulnerable and honest – and who will be the same around us.

Understanding: someone who is interested in, and can make sense of, certain obscure features of our minds: our obsessions, preoccupations and ways of seeing the world. And whom we are excited to understand in turn.

If we have these three critical ingredients to hand, we will feel loved and essentially satisfied whatever differences then crop up in a hundred other areas. Perhaps our partner’s friends or routines won’t be a delight, but we will be content.

Just as if we lack these emotional goods, and yet agree on every detail of European literature, interior design and social existence, we are still likely to feel lonely and bereft. By limiting what we expect a relationship to be about, we can overcome the tyranny and bad temper that bedevils so many lovers.

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A good, simpler – yet very fulfilling – relationship could end up in a minimal state: we might not socialise much together. We might hardly ever encounter each other’s families. Our finances might overlap only at a few points.

We could be living in different places and only meet up twice a week. Conceivably we might not even ask too many questions about each other’s sex life. But when we would be together it would be profoundly gratifying, because we would be in the presence of someone who knew how to be kind, vulnerable and understanding.

A bond between two people can be deep and important precisely because it is not played out across all practical details of existence.

By simplifying – and clarifying – what a relationship is for we release ourselves from overly complicated conflicts – and can focus on our urgent underlying needs to be sympathised with, seen and understood.

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